My Father-In-Law Has Turned Our House Into A Motel - Angry Lady Writes In. (A Must Read)

I have been married for less than a year now to my Hubby, but my problem with him is that he keeps SECRETS a lot. We courted for 2years before we got married and I remember vividly that before we got married i was clamouring on us getting an apartment since the house he lives in is a 3 bedroom flat with almost nothing inside, except for a 14inch television and a chair set. I felt the house was too big for us and since hubby is not earning much, I felt the best was to get a smaller apartment. When I told hubby, he said no problem and few weeks to the wedding we would move to a smaller apartment.



Few weeks to the D-day, this man didn’t say anything, so I decided to remind him. Exactly one week to the wedding he said he has something to tell me, I asked him to go ahead, Calbela what i heard almost tore my heart apart, my husband said the house belongs to his father, and he didn’t want to tell me because he felt i was one of the Lagos so called girls, blah blah blah. I almost fainted, he said his father put him in charge of the house and he has been the landlord for 7 years now. I was shocked because the pretence was way too much. I really felt bad and after some days i decided to leave the matter and prepare for my wedding.



Fast forward, after our wedding we moved into the house and everything went normal. After a week or two, I noticed that among the three rooms, there is a door that is always locked, when i asked my husband he said his dad locked it and he doesn’t know why.



Shortly after that, his father started coming to the house often.



My husband even collected my house key to give to his father because he usually comes back from work earlier than me.



On this fateful day, I decided I will stay at home to know what my father in law was always coming to do behind our back. I have always noticed that, once he comes in, my pot of soup was always touched, and one time like that I couldn’t find one of my favourite slippers but I still didn’t suspect anything.



So I pretended I was sick and took permission off work.



Hubby left, and around noon while i was patiently lying in the room, i heard someone opened the door. I noticed that he has a company, they were both talking and giggling, after a while i didn’t hear any sound again, that was when i realized that he went into the room that was locked. After about 20mins I started hearing loud voice, sexual screams, so i tip toed out of my room, went to the front of his room and peeped, lo and behold what i saw almost gave me an attack, my father-in-law was busying banging this woman sweating and both screaming like porn stars. I ran back into my room and locked my door, after the fun the woman went into my kitchen and made rice for both of them to eat. I wanted to come out and challenged them, but something told me to tell my aunty first, so I texted her and she said I should pretend I was not at home, since they didn’t know I was in doors.



When my husband came back from work i told him all that happened he sounded uninterested and asked me if it was a big deal, another bomb shell, he said he knew along and he decided not to tell me about it wasn’t my business.



Did i also add that my things have been missing, apart from the part that the meat in my soup always go missing, my foodstuff were not left out.



Now I have told hubby i can’t cope with such. I want my own home where my things will be safe, because i don’t understand why my father-in-law should have a key to my own apartment, and worst is that this man brings all sort of women to the house.



I don’t know how my mother-in-law will feel if she ever finds out, she might think i am his accomplice or I introduce the women to him for me to have allowed that in our apartment.



I am very confused, as my husband doesn’t want to leave the house. I don’t know if i am over-reacting and it’s not a big deal like my husband says, because from the look of things, my husband does not want to leave the house. Should i turn a blind eye to my father-in-law? Should i report the situation to his wife? or should i keep insisting to my hubby that we move out of the house, even though I know he is not ready for that. Calbela please post this, I am just living like a total stranger in that house.