Alot has been put down about the QUALITIES OF AN HUSBAND MATERIAL but nothing really has been written on how to attract such a man 
I've heard many girls say, "there are only very few guys who wants to settle down. They are all the same. Sleep and dump you". That's not true!
We have real guys who wants to settle down. It's just that some ladies are quite uninformed as to how to attract such guys. When preparation meets opportunity, success is achieved, they say!
How Do You Attract A Marriageable Guy?
1. Quit Imitating Other Girls- Be Original
Originality is a vital trait every guy wants in his girl. No real guy wants to marry a girl who isn't comfortable with herself. She isn't okay with her looks so goes everywhere on fake " everything"! Such a girl may not find a serious guy.
2. Dressing Unclad To Impress Isn't The Best
I know it's your body and your business but I must say this: If a guy gets to like you first because you exposed your body, it will be damn hard to get him to notice how intelligent you are in other areas. That's where FIRST IMPRESSION really matters a lot. He's been starved. You fed him. He got close to you. He got tired of your food. He looks out. Your guess is as good as mine
3. Have A Goal In Life
There are already so many girls without goals. Don't join them. They have decided to get married to a "rich guy" as they say, and bury their career in his wallet. Girl, career ladies may have their own issues but no guy wishes to date a "broke ass" girl too, hehehehe
. If you are broke, enh, at least have a dream, a career... Let it drive the course of your life.
When he sees your passion for something other than money, clothes and sex, he will make a move.
4. Lend A Helping Hand Where Necessary.
Remember we are talking about how to attract the kind of guy whose love for you bypasses your "temporary looks". Having watched " Devious Maids", Season 2: One of the maids caught the fancy of a very handsome man, because of what? She was wholeheartedly helping his dad. Free yourself. Go out of your way and help someone. It's not about attracting anyone but being nice Apart from sex and other usuals, can your guy really call you a HELP? . Nothing moves a guy than a lady helping him in to do what he isn't disposed to do.
5. Be Committed To A Religion
There is something about being a "religious" person, it creates an atmosphere of good expectations. It promises him of something good, at least. Though, there are so many counterfeits here and there
6. Disconnect Yourself From Sugar Daddies!
Excuse me! I went to a university where having a sugar daddy was a norm. Flashy cars roll in the girls' hostels every evening. Yet, these girls are praying for a husband material! It's not fair na! Sometimes, Sometimes, the reason some ladies face prolonged single hood is this! So many poo have gone wrong. Mind you: A sugar daddy mustn't be an elderly man!
7. Spend Some Of Your Time With Married Ladies
As earlier quoted: Success is where preparation meets with opportunity. In life, you don't get what you want when you want it. You get it when you've prepared (to an extent) for it. Hanging out with those Ladies kinda build a marital disposition in you, somehow. Getting advice from romance section Ladies can only take you so far.
Hahaha...This is not a Ladies' bashing thread as it were.... Just a thought
I've heard many girls say, "there are only very few guys who wants to settle down. They are all the same. Sleep and dump you". That's not true!
We have real guys who wants to settle down. It's just that some ladies are quite uninformed as to how to attract such guys.
How Do You Attract A Marriageable Guy?
1. Quit Imitating Other Girls- Be Original
Originality is a vital trait every guy wants in his girl. No real guy wants to marry a girl who isn't comfortable with herself. She isn't okay with her looks so goes everywhere on fake " everything"! Such a girl may not find a serious guy.
2. Dressing Unclad To Impress Isn't The Best
I know it's your body and your business but I must say this: If a guy gets to like you first because you exposed your body, it will be damn hard to get him to notice how intelligent you are in other areas. That's where FIRST IMPRESSION really matters a lot. He's been starved. You fed him. He got close to you. He got tired of your food. He looks out. Your guess is as good as mine
3. Have A Goal In Life
There are already so many girls without goals. Don't join them. They have decided to get married to a "rich guy" as they say, and bury their career in his wallet. Girl, career ladies may have their own issues but no guy wishes to date a "broke ass" girl too, hehehehe
When he sees your passion for something other than money, clothes and sex, he will make a move.
4. Lend A Helping Hand Where Necessary.
Remember we are talking about how to attract the kind of guy whose love for you bypasses your "temporary looks". Having watched " Devious Maids", Season 2: One of the maids caught the fancy of a very handsome man, because of what? She was wholeheartedly helping his dad. Free yourself. Go out of your way and help someone. It's not about attracting anyone but being nice Apart from sex and other usuals, can your guy really call you a HELP? . Nothing moves a guy than a lady helping him in to do what he isn't disposed to do.
5. Be Committed To A Religion
There is something about being a "religious" person, it creates an atmosphere of good expectations. It promises him of something good, at least. Though, there are so many counterfeits here and there
6. Disconnect Yourself From Sugar Daddies!
Excuse me! I went to a university where having a sugar daddy was a norm. Flashy cars roll in the girls' hostels every evening. Yet, these girls are praying for a husband material! It's not fair na! Sometimes, Sometimes, the reason some ladies face prolonged single hood is this! So many poo have gone wrong. Mind you: A sugar daddy mustn't be an elderly man!
7. Spend Some Of Your Time With Married Ladies
As earlier quoted: Success is where preparation meets with opportunity. In life, you don't get what you want when you want it. You get it when you've prepared (to an extent) for it. Hanging out with those Ladies kinda build a marital disposition in you, somehow. Getting advice from romance section Ladies can only take you so far.
Hahaha...This is not a Ladies' bashing thread as it were...
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